Watched Raavanan yesterday. I loved vikram's acting a lot. Guess u gotta appreciate this kinda art movies if u wanna like the movie. If u re the singam kind of masala movie person, well u can forget abt watching raavanan cos the movie wun just meet ur needs. Anyway, there is one thing tt the movie portrayed well. A bad guy is usually not the bad guy always, and also a good guy will also have some negative shades to him. This is very true in our lives. Often when we see a person in a negative light, and when we tell our frens abt them in a negative way, the person is seen like as though he is a heartless villain. But for sure there is another side to him that was failed to explore and the story told might have even been a lie to make him sound villainish. Why i am saying this is tt such a thing occured to me not once but twice. I know for sure that some ppl have a very different impression of me now. They might even hate me. But truthfully, go ahead if u hate me. Seriously, i dun wanna change tt if tts the way u opt to see me. Its always those who never knew the full version of the story tt end up hating me. They just believe in entirely from wat they hear. Proving to these kinda ppl that i m not the person they perceive me to be, is surely needless.
I always try to learn from mistakes, be it my own mistakes or mistakes by others. Even recently, there was one such learning process tt i was involved in. And i think the way tt i have understood and adapted to the situation seems to be appropriate and well accepted. I have come to a point where i dun really care on how some ppl comment abt me, as long as they re not directly my frens and i wouldnt really be affected if anything was to happen regarding our friendship. On the other hand, if it was a close fren who is saying unreasonable things behind my back, i guess all i will do is to forgive and forget and if the friendship is really important to me, i totally would not shy away from any efforts to bring back the friendship together.
It is also important how we treat certain ppl. I have always believed in this policy. Regardless of whether or not u re talked abt or appreciated, once u choose to show care and concern for someone, just go ahead and do so. Of cos one impt lesson tt i learnt is tt i cant really do it limitlessly. There re boundaries to everyone. And i should not cross it even if it seems like everything is fine and ok. Cos one fine day, the unexpected will still happen. So even when doing gd to someone, u gotta be careful. The world and its people have changed to such an extent tt it becomes wrong sometimes to be too nice haha.
A gd approach to this kindaf problem will be to continue being nice and gd, and then disappear or shy away for some time so tt the deed done has sunken in. After some gap, come back again and show ur niceness again and disappear yet again. Well, the reason for disappearing is quite simple. Once u start being nice and keep doing so without a stop. it mite cos some kindaf suspicion to the person on the receiving end. Though there might be no intentions or watsoever, its just an insecure feeling tt we might give to the person if we re being too nice. Cos not everyone does things without expectations.
I am simply following this approach nowadays. It surely keeps me away from probs. Anyway, i m really low on cash now since i spent a lot whenever i was out. To make matters worse, my dad does not offer me pocket money all the time. He seems to like forget abt it quite frequently nowadays. Adding to that, i dun feel like going for the casino work again since it makes me look stupid. I m sure i dun have to go thru such sufferings. I sure deserve a much better kindaf job. So somehow, i am giving myself a free period for the next three weeks before my holidays come to an end.
Haizzzz. Somehow, life aint tt interesting like it used to be....
Ganeshan | 6:27 AM